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Marriage Equality

Millions of disabled Americans cannot marry without risking access to vital healthcare, community supports, and other disability benefits. Over 8 million Americans rely on disability benefits, such as Supplemental Security Income (SSI) or Disabled Adult Child (DAC) for their healthcare and to meet other basic needs. Unfortunately, many people with disabilities cannot marry without losing these crucial benefits. DREDF is working to protect the freedom of people with disabilities to marry and form families with those they love.

Disability Marriage Equality, now streaming on Hulu!

Patrice: The Movie is a documentary following the stories of Patrice Jetter, her partner Garry Wickham, and their friends as they fight for marriage equality for people with disabilities. This beautifully-made film puts disabled love, friendship, community, creativity, and joy on center stage. The documentary includes some of DREDF’s marriage equality advocacy led by Senior Staff Attorney Ayesha Elaine Lewis.

Film poster, Patrice and Garry side by side with text surrounding them. Patrice wears a shiny blue dress from the 1980’s, standing with a crutch. To her left, Garry is seated in his wheelchair wearing a purple polo. Gary looks up to Patrice in admiration. Text reads: Patrice: The Movie. Film festival laurels appear for BFI London, Toronto International, and Camden International. Text at the bottom reads: On Hulu September 30

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Advancing Marriage Equality: A Toolkit by DREDF

DREDF is proud to share our new Advancing Marriage Equality toolkit. Learn more about the marriage penalties faced by people with disabilities and their partners, what’s at stake, and ways you can take action to #EndTheLoveTax!

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Factsheets

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Factsheets

Eliminating or Reducing Marriage Penalties Bills Introduced in Congress

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Supplemental Security Income (SSI) and the 25 Percent Marriage Penalties

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Supplemental Security Income (SSI) and the “Spousal Deeming” Marriage Penalty

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Marriage Equality for People with Disabilities: A Virtual Briefing on Personal Stories and Pending Legislation

May 10, 2024

Additional Resources

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Resource

Legislative Advocacy for Marriage Equality: What can we do?

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Icons in red and white depicting the Capitol building, the universal symbol for access and a bill

Factsheets

Eliminating or Reducing Marriage Penalties Bills Introduced in Congress

  • Marriage Equality

Resource

Marriage Equality Annotated Bibliography

  • Marriage Equality